MY HUSBAND ABANDONED ME AND OUR SIX CHILDREN AFTER SIXTEEN YEARS OF MARRIAGE FOR HIS YOUNG FITNESS TRAINER, THEN LOOKED ME IN THE EYES AND SAID I HAD “LET MYSELF GO.” HE PACKED HIS SUITCASE WHILE OUR CHILDREN SLEPT UPSTAIRS, PROMISED TO SEND MONEY, AND WALKED OUT AS IF WE WERE NOTHING MORE THAN AN INCONVENIENT CHAPTER IN HIS LIFE. I CRIED THROUGH THE NIGHT, THEN GOT UP THE NEXT MORNING AND MADE BREAKFAST FOR SIX CHILDREN WHO STILL BELIEVED THEIR FATHER WOULD COME HOME. BUT JUST AS I WAS TRYING TO HOLD OUR BROKEN FAMILY TOGETHER, HIS COWORKER MARK CALLED ME IN A PANIC. “GET DRESSED AND COME TO THE OFFICE RIGHT NOW!” HE SHOUTED. “YOU NEED TO SEE WHAT’S HAPPENED TO COLE!” I THOUGHT MY MARRIAGE WAS THE WORST THING HE COULD DESTROY. I WAS ABOUT TO DISCOVER THAT HIS BETRAYAL HAD PUT FAR MORE THAN OUR FAMILY AT RISK.

The morning after my husband left, I burned the first batch of pancakes. It was such a small thing, but standing over the stove with smoke rising from the pan, …

MY HUSBAND ABANDONED ME AND OUR SIX CHILDREN AFTER SIXTEEN YEARS OF MARRIAGE FOR HIS YOUNG FITNESS TRAINER, THEN LOOKED ME IN THE EYES AND SAID I HAD “LET MYSELF GO.” HE PACKED HIS SUITCASE WHILE OUR CHILDREN SLEPT UPSTAIRS, PROMISED TO SEND MONEY, AND WALKED OUT AS IF WE WERE NOTHING MORE THAN AN INCONVENIENT CHAPTER IN HIS LIFE. I CRIED THROUGH THE NIGHT, THEN GOT UP THE NEXT MORNING AND MADE BREAKFAST FOR SIX CHILDREN WHO STILL BELIEVED THEIR FATHER WOULD COME HOME. BUT JUST AS I WAS TRYING TO HOLD OUR BROKEN FAMILY TOGETHER, HIS COWORKER MARK CALLED ME IN A PANIC. “GET DRESSED AND COME TO THE OFFICE RIGHT NOW!” HE SHOUTED. “YOU NEED TO SEE WHAT’S HAPPENED TO COLE!” I THOUGHT MY MARRIAGE WAS THE WORST THING HE COULD DESTROY. I WAS ABOUT TO DISCOVER THAT HIS BETRAYAL HAD PUT FAR MORE THAN OUR FAMILY AT RISK. Read More